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The Setup That Looked Like Support
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The Setup That Looked Like Support

The Breakdown That Became My Breakthrough – Part 2

🎙️ Episode 2: The Setup That Looked Like Support

Loyalty, betrayal, and the quiet unraveling that happens when you keep showing up for something that was never built for you.


Show Description:
This episode is personal.
I’m sharing a moment I haven’t said out loud until now. How I found myself giving, building, and believing in a vision that wasn’t mine… and wasn’t meant to include me.

The betrayal didn’t come loud.
It came with smiles. Sweet words. Strategy meetings.
It came disguised as support.
And I kept showing up, thinking I was being seen when really, I was being used.

Today, I’m unpacking what it felt like to have my loyalty turned into leverage and how I found my way back to me.


🧩 What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • The “promotion” that felt like progress… but was really the beginning of a setup

  • How betrayal can sound like praise and feel like partnership

  • The moment I realized I was building someone else’s ladder while standing still

  • Why being good at something doesn’t mean it’s yours to keep

  • How to reclaim your power and redirect your loyalty back to yourself


✍🏾 Journal Prompt:

Where have I mistaken exploitation for support?
And what would it look like to redirect that loyalty toward my own vision?


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This is a God-led journey and I’m so grateful you’re on it with me.

Take care of yourself, sis.
Be gentle with your heart. Be firm with your boundaries.
And keep walking toward your Next It.

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